My grandmother Martha Johanna Lück born König, later Flender. I have a deep bond with her, also with my other grandmother Cobra Yeganeh Arani. I still have to upload and add a picture of her too here, so that my both beloved grandmothers are one at this place. They did meet and they did have a friendly and positive relationship.
At this point on this personal blog of mine I want to express my sadness about close family members who prove to me that family means closeness to some members and total distance to other ones. I have a sibling who along with the family she created for herself totally broke with the core family she came from, while betraying them morally sucking out financial means … This sibling has been discrminating against me since I was twenty and I suffered a traumatic experience. She victim-blamed me and ever since calls me mentally disabled – unisono alongside her dauther. What happend to me with 20 yeas old was that a person attempted to murder me by entering our house with an axe and by setting the house on fire. I could gladly hide, but I developed a post-traumatic-stress-disorder. I don’t extend on this here right now.
These days this sibling tries to steal via blackmail from my other sibling and me. She calls my other sibling mentally feeble too, for unbelievable reasons. Basically she called our entire family mentally crazy, just because of a lot of idealism we shared, except her. My parents, my other sibling and I did idealistic work, the other sibling just went for money, fame, being adapted, conformity, hipocritical „religiousness“ too. She created a perfect fassade by working against discrimination while discriminating against my sibling, me and my parents. She called my parents old and senile, me and my other sibling mentally retarted.
This is so gross, I don’t want to keep it to myself for the rest of my life, so I note it down here … and I pray to my grandmothers that they keep their sacred hands on my parents spiritual and material inheritance.
Sibling abuse is not a subject being discussed in Germany so far on any visible scale. Sadly.